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17 Sep 2025

Unlock Your Child’s Confidence in Seconds

A lot of kids tell me they’re nervous to read out loud or speak in front of their class. Many feel scared, anxious, or embarrassed. You might be wondering how to help your child build confidence in these moments. One student’s experience after my presentation is a perfect example of how small actions can make a big impact.

After the presentation, a young girl confided that she had to give a speech to her classmates next period – but didn’t feel confident enough to do it.

I shared a simple strategy: ‘Stand tall, shoulders back, head high.’

She promised to give it a try.

A little while later, she excitedly told me, “It worked! It made so much difference.”

That moment reminded me – the way we carry ourselves doesn’t just change how others see us. It also changes how we feel about ourselves.

Standing tall sends the brain a powerful message: ‘I’m ready. I can do this.’

It’s a small act that helps kids step into courage in moments that feel overwhelming

Here’s how you can help your child build confidence:

  • Pause & Focus – Before a test, game, or presentation, guide them to repeat the phrase: ‘Stand tall, shoulders back, head high.’
  • Boost Their Courage – Ask them to repeat the above phrase until it becomes their mindset.
  • Practice Together – Stand tall side by side and notice the energy shift together.

This is what I know: Confidence often begins with the impact of one simple choice — how we choose to stand.

Until next time…

4 Sep 2025

Why Kids Need Space after School?

It doesn’t matter if your child is usually a chatterbox or more reserved—sometimes, getting them to open up after school can be tough, at least for me. 😊

Your child arrives home, and you can’t wait to hear every detail. You ask, “How was your day?”

And you get… “Good.” (That’s my son’s go-to response)

Or maybe you get, “I don’t want to talk about it.”

Or nothing at all.                

Sound familiar?

School days are long. They require a lot of emotional energy: paying attention, learning new things, navigating friendships, following rules, and being ‘on’ from start to finish.

It’s not about shutting you out — it’s that kids need space to unwind before they can talk. Instead of pressing for details right away, try giving them a calm, welcoming space. Offer a snack, suggest a quiet activity, or simply let them settle in.

When kids feel they have permission to decompress, they’re more likely to open up on their own. Sometimes the conversation comes minutes later, sometimes at bedtime, or even the next day — and that’s completely normal.

I know for my son bedtime is when he opens up – that’s when I get information I thought would happen as soon as he walked in the door.

This is what I know: Respecting that kids need space helps them feel supported and more willing to share when they’re ready.

Until next time…