Mindset Archives - UPower Presentations - Sara Westbrook

Are you proud of yourself?

Linda Westbrook — Wed, 22 Apr 2026 18:06:54 +0000

We often say to kids ‘good job’ or ‘I’m proud of you.’ Those words matter, but they can train kids to look outward for validation instead of inward for recognition. A simple question shifts that focus: ‘Are you proud of yourself?’ It sounds small, but it changes where the reflection happens. Instead of waiting for […]

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How to Confidently Be Yourself

Linda Westbrook — Wed, 15 Apr 2026 00:21:16 +0000

There’s a quiet pressure that shows up for both kids and adults.Fit in. Don’t stand out too much. Be liked. A child stays quiet instead of sharing their idea.A teen laughs along, even when it doesn’t feel right.An adult holds back their opinion in a meeting. Not because they don’t have something to offer…but because […]

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When a Child Replays Mistakes

Linda Westbrook — Fri, 27 Mar 2026 16:57:38 +0000

If your child replays mistakes or challenges and is hard on themselves, you’re not alone. They might walk away and start tearing themselves apart in their own thoughts: “Everyone must think I’m silly.”“I can’t believe I messed up.”“I don’t get why I did that.” They can keep going over and over it, turning one small […]

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The Year I Forgot the Words…

Linda Westbrook — Wed, 04 Mar 2026 23:03:32 +0000

At 15, I entered the Rotary Music Festival again, determined to finally win gold after placing second two years in a row. I had practiced for months. Memorized every note. Imagined the applause when I nailed my performance. And then, in the second verse, I forgot the words. Panic set in. Embarrassed? Absolutely. But I […]

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Mindset Phrases for Kids That Work

Linda Westbrook — Thu, 11 Dec 2025 00:52:20 +0000

We all want our kids to feel confident and capable. Sometimes we tell them things like believe in yourself, try harder, or be more determined and they’re left thinking, OK… but how do I actually do that? That’s where mindset phrases for kids come in – simple, usable words that help strengthen their inner voice when they need it most. […]

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Gratitude in the Unexpected

Linda Westbrook — Thu, 30 Oct 2025 17:15:29 +0000

When you choose to only focus on what you expected to achieve or what you wanted to occur, a mindset shift for gratitude helps you notice the learning and opportunities that can come from life’s detours. When I was travelling to BC, I expected that my holiday would be stress free – a time to […]

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Power of Small Wins – Why You’re Winning Without Realizing It

Linda Westbrook — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 15:42:16 +0000

You most likely notice the big wins, but are you seeing the small ones? The big wins are easy to spot…finishing a challenging project, hitting a professional goal, or successfully navigating a tough situation. Exciting, yes. But it’s the small wins – the everyday choices to stay patient, focused, and calm under pressure that shapes […]

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Unlock Your Child’s Confidence in Seconds

Linda Westbrook — Wed, 17 Sep 2025 18:36:11 +0000

A lot of kids tell me they’re nervous to read out loud or speak in front of their class. Many feel scared, anxious, or embarrassed. You might be wondering how to help your child build confidence in these moments. One student’s experience after my presentation is a perfect example of how small actions can make […]

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Confidence vs Self Worth: Know the Difference

Linda Westbrook — Thu, 01 May 2025 02:06:46 +0000

It’s easy to confuse confidence and self-worth—but they’re not the same. Understanding the difference makes it easier to stand strong in who you are. Confidence changes, self worth never. Confidence is about your abilities—how you feel about what you can do, your skills, and how prepared you are. It shifts and grows as you face new […]

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When Kids Want to Give Up

Linda Westbrook — Thu, 20 Mar 2025 16:10:30 +0000

For two years, fear held me back from trying out for Canadian Idol. The third year, I finally said yes. I made it through two rounds, but when I stood in front of the celebrity judges and sang, they said, “You can’t sing! Do something else!” I was embarrassed, devastated, and angry. I went home […]

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